I have a problem that blocks in my decisions and also in continuing my road: I have a relationship with a woman for some months now, but I also have a strong passion also for a man older than me. I do not know what to choose. Can you help me?
Shalom, Homosexual relationships are prohibited by the Torah. Many men have sexual desires for other men, but the Torah demands that these desires not be acted upon. However, these desires may make it very difficult to develop a relationship with a woman. It is very important to get both religious on psychological counseling to determine the proper path at this time. I wish you much success.