What is the custom of an annual prayer to G_d, to ignore a disgraceful sentence if being forced to say it by sinners who threaten my family so G_d knows to ignore me? Neither the discussion for Hatarat Nedarim nor Kol Nidrei mention this admittedly unlikely situation. (May you soon be inscribed and sealed for a good year) S Brown

Shalom, I am not sure that I understand your question fully. It does seem though that there is some pain in your question, so please accept my blessings for a new year filled with only good and holiness, for you and all of your family. May the Blessings of Hashem be upon you. R. Sperling