15 Lessons

Bemare Habazak - Rabbis Questions Different Drinks for Kiddush
If I do not want to drink wine/grape juice, may I use other drinks for Kiddush?

Bemare Habazak - Rabbis Questions Challot on the Table for Kiddush
We like to keep our challot in a warm place until bringing them to the table after Netilat Yadayim so they taste their best. Must they be on the table during Kiddush?

Bemare Habazak - Rabbis Questions Eat Meat on Shabbat when it Bothers his Wife?
My wife and I are relatively newly married. I am used to having fleishig Shabbat meals, whereas my wife is disgusted by meat (including poultry, mainly by the smell). Is it right for us to stop having meat at Shabbat/Yom Tov meals or should we try to figure out an arrangement that my wife can live with?

Bemare Habazak - Rabbis Questions Davening for a Friend on Shabbat
I regularly daven that my friend will find a shidduch. May I do so, mentioning her name, on Shabbat?

Bemare Habazak - Rabbis Questions Which Way to Turn at Bo’i B’shalom?
In what direction should one turn when getting up to “Bo’i B’shalom” at the end of Lecha Dodi? Many shuls seems to have confusion on the matter.

Bemare Habazak - Rabbis Questions Frozen Challa for Lechem Mishneh
May we use a frozen challa for lechem mishneh on Shabbat?

Bemare Habazak - Rabbis Questions Fulfilling Kiddush from One Who Did Not Eat
If the person making Kiddush in shul does not eat after Kiddush, is his Kiddush valid?

Bemare Habazak - Rabbis Questions Short Mincha on Shabbat
In my community (I am the rabbi), we daven Mincha during the week without a separate chazarat hashatz (=heiche Kedusha) because of people’s busy schedules. In the winter, we have the practice of davening Mincha of Shabbat after the shul Kiddush following Musaf. Some congregants have requested that we do short Mincha, as their wives wait to go home with them. Is there any basis to allow this?

Bemare Habazak - Rabbis Questions Continuing to Eat a Seuda Shlishit without Bread
When my family has seuda shlishit before sheki’a (sunset), I join them. The amount I eat varies, but I do not like to have a full meal with bread. May I continue eating after sheki’a?

Bemare Habazak - Rabbis Questions Taking Off Challa on Shabbat
My sons were guests in Bnei Brak. The hosts forgot to do hafrashat challa before Shabbat. On Shabbat, the ba’al habayit separated some challa to be burnt after Shabbat. Was it okay for my sons to have eaten?