31 Lessons

Must I Honor My Parents if They Tell Me Not to Live In Judea/Samaria?
What if one's parents tell him not to live in Judea/Samaria? Is living there considered an extra important mitzvah, and therefore he should ignore his parents, or is it only a "beautification" of the existing mitzvah of living in the Land of Israel?
Rabbi Eliezer Melamed | Nissan 7 5782

The Kaddish and Its Virtue
Chapter Twenty Three-Part Two
Rabbi Eliezer Melamed | 5775

Birkot HaTorah – The Blessings on the Torah
Chapter ten-part one
Rabbi Eliezer Melamed | 5775

The Times of Birkot HaShachar
Chapter nine-part two
Rabbi Eliezer Melamed | 5775

Birkot HaShachar – The Morning Blessings
Chapter nine-part one
Rabbi Eliezer Melamed | 5775

When we need to wash our hands?
Chapter eight-part three
Rabbi Eliezer Melamed | 5775

Washing One’s Hands in the Morning
Chapter eight-part one
Rabbi Eliezer Melamed | 5775

The Mourner’s Kaddish
Chapter four-part two
Rabbi Eliezer Melamed

Oh, Freedom!
Why did the Torah allow the impoverished to be sold into slavery, instead of forcing the rich to support them? And how can we learn to deal with thieves from the Torah?
Rabbi Eliezer Melamed | 5775

The Desecration of God and the Torah
Rabbi Eliezer Melamed | 5775

How Binding is Minhag?
Should a person continue praying in the traditional style of his fathers’, or can he change? Educate children about the importance of marriage, and don’t stress the problems.
Rabbi Eliezer Melamed | 5775

“Hatov Vehametiv”
Wine is unique in that it not only satiates, it also gladdens the heart. Each type of wine has its own unique character, and when additional types of wine are consumed in company there is greater joy - and therefore a special blessing is recited.
Rabbi Eliezer Melamed | 5769

Mentioning and Requesting Rain
Mistakes related to the mentioning and requesting of rain are the most common in prayer. This is because the appropriate wording changes every six months. After accustoming ourselves to one version it is difficult to make the switch to the other.
Rabbi Eliezer Melamed | 5769

The Laws Relating to Converts
The laws relating to Jewish converts are most astounding. Despite the criticism directed at the Jewish people on the grounds that Judaism is racist, the Torah teaches us that any non-Jew who earnestly seeks to join the Jewish people may do so.
Rabbi Eliezer Melamed

Counting Blessings . . . and Calories
The Sages teach that “jealousy, greed, and honor remove a person from the world” (Avot 4:21). These negative traits stem from the fact that a person is not satisfied with his own life and believes that his happiness depends upon exterior factors.
Rabbi Eliezer Melamed | 5766

Women, Precepts, and Perimeters
As a rule, women are obligated to observe the commandments of the Torah just like men, with the exception of positive time-bound precepts. Yet, if a woman wishes to voluntarily perform a positive time-bound commandment, she receives merit for this.
Rabbi Eliezer Melamed | 5766

The Woman and Her Commandments
Essentially, men and women are created equal and both are graced by the divine image through which every human being is created. Likewise, the unalterable chosenness of the Jewish people and their innate holiness embraces men and women alike.
Rabbi Eliezer Melamed | 5766

A Woman's Obligation to Pray
According to most authorities, women are no less obligated to pray than men. Therefore, they must pray “Amida” in the morning and the afternoon (“Shacharit” and “Mincha”). The evening Amida prayer (“Maariv”), on the other hand, is voluntary.
Rabbi Eliezer Melamed | 5766

46. The “Hassid” - Further Discussion
A saintly person controls his tongue. He does not emit a word from his mouth without thinking about it first. Every word is weighed and considered. Hence, the prayer of such a person is not a thoughtless, perfunctory act, like the speech of a parrot.
Rabbi Eliezer Melamed | 5762
