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Strangers No More

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"Yitro, Moshes father-in-law, took Zipora, Moshes wife, & her 2 sons, one named Gershom, for he said, "I was a stranger in a strange land; & the other named Eliezer; for the G-d of my father came to my aid & saved me from Paros sword. " (18:2-4).

Several questions jump out of this pasuk. First, why are Moshes two sons identified as "Zipora's sons" rather than the children of BOTH parents? Second, Gershom was born, & his name identified, way back in parshat Shmot (2:22). Why was it necessary once again, here in this sedra, to repeat it? Finally, although Moshes second son, Eliezer, was born a long time ago, this is the first time he is ever mentioned! Why only now do we learn about him?

I suggest the following: The boys are referred to as "Ziporas sons" because she was left alone to raise them while Moshe, at Hashems bidding, pursued the formidable task of extricating Bnei Yisrael from Egypt. For the best of reasons, he was the epitome of the "absentee
Abba," & so Zipora is given credit for being, in effect, "both" parents.

And while Eliezers name expresses Moshes thanks for having been saved "from Paros sword" way back 61 years ago when he killed the Egyptian Moshe has been saved numerous other times since then (such as when he went back & forth to Paros palace); & so it seems fitting to mention Eliezers name here at this juncture, now that Paro has been vanquished once and for all & Moshe is truly safe.

But what about the repetition of Gershom & his name? Why the seemingly superfluous repetition here, in our sedra? What message is the Torah trying to impart to us?

So I offer: Moshe was raised in the palace, surrounded by all the luxury that royalty receives. He left the palace & went to Midian for 6 decades, enjoying a tranquil, calm & pastoral existence. Imagine how hard it must have been to leave those two comfortable places & head into the harsh desert, an uncharted territory fraught with danger, to head to Israel.

And so, as Moshe leaves Palace Paro & Midian far behind, he strengthens himself by repeating over & over again, like a mantra "I was a stranger in a strange land. I was a stranger in a strange land. For all of Egypts & Midians perks & pampering, "I was a stranger there! That was not my land!"

Moshes mantra must be ours, too. We must constantly remind ourselves that other venues, no matter how attractive they may seem, are "strange lands," & we are - & forever will be strangers within them. G-d has given us one, true home, & that must always be our rightful destination.

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