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I am in shnat avelut for my father z"l (well after the shloshim). My largest customer has asked if I could travel and do some work for them in an East African country where I will definitely not find a minyan. Outright refusal will cost me a large part of my livelihood; Iโ€™ve told them my situation and asked that they only send me in case of emergency, which they agreed to, but Iโ€™m not sure their definition of an emergency would be the same as mine. That being said, they do supply me about 80% of my income. Assuming the answer is that I can go, the question is, as I have no brothers, should I pay someone to say Kaddish during the period I am unable to?
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That is a dilemma. You can go and be there as little as possible. You don't have to sacrifice your livelihood for to say kaddish as important as it is. You should get a replacement by paying someone. I hope you won't have to go.
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