Ask the Rabbi
- Family and Society
- Death and Mourning
- Burial and the Cemetery
Question
When visiting a cemetery, what prayer is said at the grave sight for the deceased?
Answer
There is a list of psalms that are said on the thirtieth day from the burial and on the anniversary of the death(=yahrtzeit). Some or all of these may be said when visiting on another occasion. Those in charge of the cemetery should have a prayer-book with them that includes the bracha that is made on visiting a cemetery after having not been there for thirty days or more.

burial of non-members
Rabbi Chaim Tabasky | 11 Tevet 5767
Funeral and shiva minyan
Rabbi Moshe Leib Halberstadt | Nisan 30, 5773

Stone setting
Various Rabbis | Adar II 6, 5768






